Larger bodies mate a plus.
My smart husband is not wanting to participate.Straight forward, calm, witty, respectful of boundaries, timely, very clean, organized, both out mate door and indoor fun, cheerful, open, mostly discrete, honest, curious,playful...... My travels up on the lake boats was hard & stressful at times as I didn't get to get smart off the ship that much.
Guess the PC term is a "Dad bod".